I changed my life when I learned this one thing... Belief is an ability and abilities are learned. I grew up believing that I was just average and ordinary, maybe even less than average and ordinary. I would take a ride in my beat up car and drive through the "nice neighborhoods" and look at the big houses and wonder "how in the world could people have so much money?". I couldn’t imagine what it would take to build one of these houses, let alone furnish them and the cost of up-keep. I believed that I could never own one of these homes.