What does adversity do to us? Many things, - We become paralyzed - We feel anxiety - We may get angry, for certain we feel angry, as we know that we want to believe that this problem is somehow not our fault. - We withdraw - We go into survivor mode. But no matter how many things we do, we eventually start to analyze the situation. The analyzation of the problem is how we find the seed of equivelant benefit. The adversity arose because something was not working. And yes, sometimes we wait too long to notice that there may be a problem, and we might not be able to rectify the situation.